| | Hello hello, my name is Laura. I'm 23 years old and I'm from Toronto, Canada. I won't be living in Ontario for much longer though as I'm fleeing the country for a year to live in New Zealand and maybe Australia. Right now my life is pretty boring as I'm in full financial lockdown saving every penny for my trip and working, but I love to read peoples entries and comment. A lot of my likes and interests are in my info, but a few things I'm into at the moment are: Supernatural, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Bored to Death, Russell Brand, Flight of the Conchords and comedy in general. Feel free to add me! | comments: Leave a comment  |
| Hey y'all,
So, some friends of mine are super into the idea of having a Pure Romance (or similar) party. Which is cool...I'm down with that, but I don't know if I could handle a party by that particular brand.
I am so so so not interested in attending a party where there are things including:
* Numbing creams * Vaginal tighteners * Sex toys made of undisclosed material * Sex toys made with phthalates and are not suggested to be used with a condom
Basically, I'd prefer a party where the consultant wasn't pushing materials that are unsafe, or somewhat patriarchal (e.g. vaginal tighteners. No thanks!)
So far, the only companies I have found are Pure Romance, and Passion Parties - both offer creams that I find offensive and unhealthy. Neither lists what material their toys are made of (that I can find). And neither has a section called "Dildos" on their website, which is obviously not an ethical issue, but does make navigating their site rather difficult! Its a sex toy shop, is it so hard to imagine that a person might be looking for a dildo? ;)
So, any ideas VPers? Is it unrealistic of me to expect that ANY company would exist that does not sell these things? I don't think babeland does, but I also don't think they do parties. :(
Edit: I'm located in Central NY State...which is not exactly promising, as far as finding a better party-giver, I know. | comments: 18 comments or Leave a comment  |
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| This may seem like a stupid question, but where do STI's come from, how did they originate? I mean, I know they are transmitted by sex, but where did it start? Like, did every case of chlmydia start from one person and it spread from there and because not every single person that has it gets treated, so it continues to spread? Is it possible for it to just spontaneously occur without contact with an infected person? I'm talking specifically about about chlmydia in this case. For example, say I was tested 6 weeks/months ago with negative results and had no sexual activity at all since that test, would it be possible to suddenly have a positive test? What if two people were tested with negative results and only had sexual contact with each other, no one else, and six weeks later both tested positive. Would it be possible to have gotten it from each other? I'm just curious, a friend and I got into a conversation about STI's and transmission and I realized I had no clear idea, other then STI's are transmitted through what is termed 'unsafe' sexual activity, and I wondered if it was possible for STI's to spread though 'safe' sexual activity as well. Are there new STI's emerging?
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| I literally just woke up with a potential answer in my head to a problem that I've been having for a while and I wanted to run it by you folks to see if there might be any legitimacy to it.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost three and a half years. We both live in the same home town (we met in high school) but are in a long distance relationship while at college. The good thing is we are together on vacations/over the summer.
We have noticed that, when we're home, I do not have the highest of sex drives. This is unfortunate because summer vacations are the longest consecutive time we get to spend together. I am a very sexual person, I feel, so when he first brought it up to me ("Hey... is there a reason we haven't had sex in like a week?") I was really surprised and embarrassed. "Oh God, why haven't we had sex in a week??" thought I. We have great, fantastic sex multiple times a day whenever we visit each other at school, and on vacations and such. I'm still very attracted to him and love him deeply. For some reason, though, when we're in my bed at home, all I want to do is snuggle or sleep. The thought of sex is...fine... but not on my priorities list at all. Usually, I feel more up to it at his house, but it's not usually an option as his mother is a bit of a night owl.
Could this have something to do with the fact that I am somehow deeply psychologically tied to the fact that this is the room/bed I grew up in? Thinking back to it, all other sexual encounters that I had before him were not in my room/house. They were in cars, his house, etc. Obviously, we do have sex in my room all the time because we kind of have to, but my desire for it is significantly less than when we are elsewhere. Again, I crave sex all the time when we're in either of our dorm rooms. Might it be that my room is kind of a symbol of innocence for my brain? Perhaps we need to get a little more creative when we're home!
Any thoughts, ideas or similar experiences? | comments: 5 comments or Leave a comment  |
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| I have a few general questions. I'm a second year chemistry major. I don't particularly have a passion for it. I want to minor in another subject area. I'm worried that I may have taken too many courses outside of my major. First year, i had my compulsory science courses with psych and business admin and this year i have geo and a humanity course. If i minor in another subject area, say humanities, will i use the courses i've taken(geo,business admin) as general education credits still? | comments: 5 comments or Leave a comment  |
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I don't know about you but I'm fed up with spending hours searching through communities trying to find the perfect icon and getting nowhere with it. To hopefully help with that, every single icon posted in shareicons will be tagged. And don't worry icon makers - I'll tag them for you so it won't take you any extra time.
Graphics makers, we'd love for you to come and post your stuff over at shareicons! We're not just for icons, we're for banners, layouts, icon making guides, textures and all other resources as well.
We're also looking for sister communities :) | comments: Leave a comment  |
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shareicons We are a new graphics community - with a slight difference.
I don't know about you but I'm fed up with spending hours searching through communities trying to find the perfect icon and getting nowhere with it. To hopefully help with that, every single icon posted in shareicons will be tagged. And don't worry icon makers - I'll tag them for you so it won't take you any extra time.
Graphics makers, we'd love for you to come and post your stuff over at shareicons! We're not just for icons, we're for banners, layouts, icon making guides, textures and all other resources as well.
We're also looking for sister communities :) | comments: Leave a comment  |
| hello :) nothing is off limits with me so lets chat, oh juss no cyber pleeeease&thkyou im horribly ill, so all i will see today is your chat screen and hours of satc
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| | Hi, I'm 29... currently living in Launceston, Tasmania. I'm a long time user of LJ but have just restarted anew with this journal. I'm married and currently studying Nursing. I mainly babble about my day to day stuff, I'm not terribly exciting but enjoy reading about others. I love 80s/90s music, movies, animals, cooking and my favourite tv show is Heroes. I'm pretty laid back,..so feel free to add me no matter the age/gender/religion etc. | comments: 1 comment or Leave a comment  |
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